Friday, April 8, 2011
Consideration
I'm wondering if this is something my readership would be interested in seeing. It may even replace the monthly "on the issues" posts (I apologize for missing April), if you want it to.
Also, remember that I'm always open to suggestions for topics. I'd also love to see y'all submitting content. If you have something you want to say that's relevant, I'm happy to share this platform, limited as it is.
I hope y'all are still enjoying the content here, and I'm looking for ways to improve it.
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Clinging to a Devouring Fire

“You shall fear HaShem your God, you shall serve Him, and you shall cling to Him, and by His Name shall you swear.” Deuteronomy 10:20
I really want to focus on “And you shall cling to him,” which is taken as a separate commandment from the surrounding verse. In Babylonian Talmud, Ketuvoth 111b, R. Eleazar asks the question, “Is it possible to ‘cleave’ to the divine presence concerning which it is written in Scripture, ‘For the Lord thy God is a devouring fire?’” (Soncino) At first, this just sounds like a clever play on words. Obviously, God is not physically a devouring fire, and the Torah does not want us to actually grab handfuls of God and hang on. If we take a second to think about it, though, R. Eleazar has a point.
How can we , weak, sinful, inadequate human beings that we are, take hold of the Living God? R. Eleazar also offers the conclusion, that we should attach ourselves to Torah scholars. According to the Talmud, when we are attached to Torah scholars it is as if we were attached to the Glory of God itself.
Similarly, Peter tells us, “Likewise you that are younger be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for ‘God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.’” (I Peter 5:5, RSV) R. Yeshua goes into this topic in some detail in Matthew 23, telling us to be subject to the Scribes and Pharisees who sit in the Seat of Moses (2-3), and then that he himself is our Rabbi (8-10). Also, in Matthew 10:25, the Messiah implies that we should attach ourselves to our rabbi and attempt to become like him.
I know that submitting to authorities is an unpopular idea. Even if we agree in theory, we tend to not like it in practice. Having to swallow our pride and do what the authorities tell us rather than what we think is best is not our first instinct. However, it is important for our survival. There is a reason why we have kings and elect presidents, and why armies have only one general for thousands of soldiers. If each of us makes his own rules and goes his own way, we can’t work together for the common good.
To bring this full circle, it could actually be argued that if we do not attach ourselves to Torah scholars, we are not attaching ourselves to the Holy One, blessed be He. Not to listen to, learn from, and obey the sages and heads of the Torah accademies is the same as ignoring God Himself.
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Confess With Your Mouth
I want to take two separate ideas and tie them together. We’ll see how this works out. “If we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleans us from all injustice,” I John 1:9. This idea is pretty simple and I don’t think you need me to explain it to you. I do want to highlight one thing, though, it requires something of us. We can’t just assume that God is going to forgive us, we have to own our mistakes, and then He is faithful to forgive us. God first requires something from us.
This is also stated as a commandment, “And when (anyone) is guilty of one of these, he must confess that in which he sinned.” (Leviticus 5:5) This verse is in the context of one certain kind of sin, but it can be understood to apply to all sins, based on R. Yishmael’s principle of “A general rule based on one verse” (introduction to Sifra). In other words, the Torah only mentions it in this one place, but this is just an example that shows us the general rule.
But the next verse, Leviticus 5:6 commands the person who confesses to then bring a sacrifice to the Temple. How can we do this without a Temple? Psalm 141:2 sets the precedent, “May my prayer be accepted as incense before You, the raising of my hands as the afternoon sacrifice.” This is why the sages began the practice of reciting the sacrifices every morning (Babylonian Talmud, Taanit 27b). In that way, our prayer takes the place of the sacrifice.
R. Yeshua also talks about confessing our sins “Our Father in Heaven, may Your Name be holy … and forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven our debtors…” (Matthew 6:9&12). In the Eighteen Benedictions (Shemoneh Esrei), which is prayed three times every day, there are two prayers in which we refer to God as “Our father.” These are the prayer of repentence, and the prayer for forgiveness. When we admit to our sins and try to correct our behavior God, like a good and loving father, is faithful to forgive us. As Leviticus 5 shows us, this should be accompanied with a sign (like a sacrifice) that we intend to change our behavior, and so we read the sacrifices, and we say the Eighteen Benedictions, which are also take the place of the sacrifices (Babylonian Talmud, Berachot 26b)
These prayers were instituted to fulfill the commandments of confession and atonement, but this is just one reason for our prayers. The rabbis can give us a lot more reasons for faithfully following the traditions of daily prayer.
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Promises, promises
“Promises, promises.” Isn’t it sad that promises mean so little in our culture that just saying “promises, promises” means you think someone is going to disappoint you? What do we have left in any kind of relationship if we don’t have trust? The Torah says, “You shall not take up the name of HaShem your God to emptiness.” (Exodus 20:7)
This verse is one that has several layers of meaning. The one that people talk about most is how we use God’s name in conversation, or if we use it at all, but the instruction also involves taking an oath. The Mishna talks about several kinds of “empty” or “vain” oaths. If you swear to something that is obviously wrong, for instance, “If he said concerning a pillar of stone that it is made of gold…” Or if you swear to something that is impossible, “if I did not see a snake as thick as the beam of an olive press,” another kind of vain oath would be any kind of illegal oath, like if you swear as a witness without the support of other witnesses, or if you swear to break a commandment (Mishna, Shavuot 3:8).
These are considered “vain” oaths, because the Hebrew word translated “vain” literally means “empty.” They’re worthless even if some of them are true, and because our words are important we shouldn’t waste our credibility on things that are empty and worthless.
The Torah also says, “Whatever comes out of your mouth, keep it and do it, just as you swore to.” (Deuteronomy 23:24a) A strict, literal interpretation of this verse has been suggested by many rabbis, such as R. Israel Meir Kagan, z”tzl (The Concise Book of Mitzvoth, Positive Commandments 39), however, there is another point we should take away from the previous verse. “And if you refrain from taking an oath you will have no sin.” (Deuteronomy 23:23)
This idea is explained in the Mishna simply as “Say little and do much.” (Mishna, Pirkei Avot 1:15) And Ecclesiastes has the same thing to say in Ecclesiastes 5:1 and then it comes around to saying, “It is better that you should not swear than that you should swear and not fulfill it.” (Ecclesiastes 5:4)
I think we would all rather not be promised anything at all than have someone make a promise that they never intended to keep. “But I say to you, do not swear an oath, whether by Heaven, for it is the throne of God, nor by the earth, because it is His footstool…but let your word be ‘yes’ for yes, and ‘no’ for no. Anything beyond this is trouble.” (Matthew 5:33-37) According to R. Yeshua we should make a practice of being reliable, doing what we say we’re going to do so that we don’t even need to swear in order for anyone to believe us.
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
When You Rise Up
Monday, March 7, 2011
The Apple Metaphor
No matter what they’re doing, Apple is relevant. The main genius of their marketing is that they would rather be hated than ignored. Apple will be relevant, even if it’s in a bad way. This raises an important question for us. How are we relevant? Do we need to be coming out with a new line of products and releasing them on new networks every year so that we’ll matter to the modern world?
In Deuteronomy 8:3 we are told that we can’t survive only on food, but on every word that God speaks. In other words, Torah will always be as relevant to our daily lives as lunch is. Exactly what lunch looks like may change from time to time, place to place, but whether it’s PB&J, or Spanish rice and refried beans, lunch is still lunch. Torah is still Torah.
The Torah will always be relevant because it grounds us. There will be days when nothing goes right, and when even prayer isn’t much comfort, but having prayer in our lives still gives us one thing that we can come back to, one person we can always vent to. The Torah also grounds us in ethics. I don’t always do what’s right, but I know what’s right, and in my life that’s been vital.
Let’s take this back to computers, because they give us a good metaphore for Torah. As much as they adjust over time, they stay essentially the same. I have the same keyboard as the very first word processing machines. My motherboard isn’t the same as a motherboard twenty years ago, but, on the other hand, it really is, and it’s the same with my religious hardware. I may not wear the same clothes as the Rambam did, but I follow the same code of modesty. Then there’s software. Microsoft recently revamped Word, but it’s still a word processor, and as long as we have computers we’re probably going to have word processors. It’s the same in prayer, I can pray in English, a language which didn’t even exist a thousand years ago, but I’m still going to pray, and as long as we have language we’re going to have prayer because it’s what makes us human, and what makes us alive, just as much as word processors are what make computers useful to 90% of us.
Now, I know that about 15% of my audience uses Mac/iphone/ipad to read my blog. Are you proud of the fact that you’re not one of those PC users? I know you are. 42% of you use firefox, and I know you because I’m one of you. You’re proud of the fact that you’re not one of those IE people, and the 6% Safari users are even prouder. So if I’m proud of asserting my independence by using Firefox, there is no reason for me to be ashamed of wearing my kippa in public. There is no reason for me to be embarrassed about looking or acting different. I use Firefox, and I wear a kippa, and I am not ashamed.
And that’s what I learned from Steve Jobs.
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Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Her splendor and glory

This time I am covering a topic that is unusual because it doesn’t apply to my primary audience. I’m talking about it partly because it was requested, and partly because it is important to understand why it doesn’t apply to youth.
It is interesting that many of the women who object most to covering their hair are the most independent-minded feminists. They object that they shouldn’t have to cover up because of a man’s weakness. At the same time, I have heard adamant feminists defend their modesty because they shouldn’t have to show anything off for the benefit of men. In the end, I think they’re both correct. A woman should not choose her clothing at all based on what men think or how men will react. She should choose her clothing as a reflection of her personal connection to the Holy One, blessed be He.
That being said, Kisui HaRosh (covering the head) is a part of the commandments regarding modesty, but it doesn’t apply to most of my audience. Kisui HaRosh is a commandment that applies specifically to married women, and this goes back to Numbers 5:18. “And the priest will bring the woman up before HaShem and uncover the head of the woman…”
This statement is a part of the test of the adulterous wife, and so it is deduced that a married woman should cover her head. The instructions of covering the head for a woman are given in Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 75, where it is stated that all of her hair should be covered. If she does so her children and grandchildren will be blessed (Babylonian Talmud, Yoma 47a), again implying that this only applies to married women. This is interesting because it points out that the central tenet of this commandment is not to prevent men from lusting. If it was, then the Torah would give us the same commandment that Islam and certain Christian rites have, that all women cover their heads, regardless of marital state. This is not the case. Note also that some authorities even prefer that women wear wigs, which may be more beautiful than their original hair! (Igros Kodesh, vol. XIX, p. 428)
So what is the purpose of this commandment? It is not to hide a woman’s beauty, but to accentuate a different kind of beauty. “Charm is deceitful, and beauty is transient, but a woman who fears HaShem, she is worthy of praise.” Proverbs 31:30. As with the Kippa, the primary goal of Kisui HaRosh is to promote the fear of Heaven. It emphasizes that a righteous woman is clothed in strength and dignity (Proverbs 31:25), not just what she is wearing on the outside. Why only married women? Headcoverings have been likened to a queen’s crown, a symbol of her status, a mark of her dignity. As much as a wedding ring, covering her head marks a change of status for a woman. Before her marriage a woman’s hair is not considered erotic, but once she is married it becomes a beautifully sexual thing which is not so much hidden, but saved. A married woman’s hair is not something to be embarrased of, it’s like the good china, which you keep in a top cupboard until you have extra special guests.